Monday, December 17, 2012

The true meaning of Christmas


Sharing a little of the little we have

Christmas is here again and as usual we may be busy preparing to celebrate this occasion in ways special and unique to each one of us. It is sad that over the years this important day has lost its true meaning and significance due to the over-commercialization of the festival.

To many of us today Christmas is just a day to celebrate by decorating our homes with the Christmas tree with lights and ornaments, adorn new clothes, exchange costly gifts and have luxurious parties and banquets, drinking and dancing and merry making. Fortunately in the process we give some donations and food to the poor and needy. 
 
Is Christmas all about decorating our homes, feasting and partying? Is it all about enjoying ourselves with friends and relatives? If we think so then we are wrong and losing sight if its true meaning. Christmas may be a celebration of Christ’s birthday but is much more than all these physical rituals that we perform to mark that birthday.


The first ever Christmas on earth was celebrated over 2 thousand years ago in Bethlehem when Jesus was born in a stable fit for the sheep and cattle as there was no place for Him in any inn. It was celebrated by poor shepherds keeping vigil watching over their flock at night out in the wilderness of a cold winter. There was no celebration, feasting or dancing. All that was there was solemnity in an environment of simplicity and humility.

The shepherds who celebrated the first Christmas were poor and had nothing to offer the newborn and his parents. All they could afford to give them was a place in their humble abode, a stable which was also their home. They shared with Mary and Joseph all they had without any conditions, knowing very well they are not going to repay them in any way. 

That first Christmas ever celebrated on earth signifies three things that we must incorporate into our celebration of Christmas today to make it more meaningful:

1. Sharing – It is not the amount or what we give is important but the way we give that matters. It is the willingness in the heart to share the little we have is what it counts and that giving must unconditional even to those whom we know will not be able to repay us in the future.All of us, including the poorest of the, have some blessings that we can share with others but do we have the heart to do so?

2. Simplicity – The poor shepherds who celebrated the first Christmas were simple folks with no air of luxury around them. They had very little to give Him and they shared all they had with a sincere heart without any conditions knowing well at that this that child of a poor carpenter will not pay them back anyway

3. Humility – What was Jesus, whom we believe is our God, Lord and Master, trying to tell us by choosing to be born in an environment of extreme poverty? Jesus in choosing to be born among the shepherds in a stable was a symbol of humility at its highest which should a lesson for all of as we celebrate Christmas this year.

We know that Christmas is a season of sharing and giving and we often without fail year after year take great pains to share what we have with our family, friends and relatives. But how willing are we in wanting to share the same with strangers, the downtrodden and those we know may never cross our paths again?

As we prepare to celebrate Christmas, let us bear in mind these three virtues of humility, simplicity and sharing that were the hallmarks of the birth of Jesus. We need to celebrate this important occasion but at the same time we must not forget the many around us who need our love and care. Let us share the little we have with them as well. 

Mother Teresa aptly describes the true meaning of Christmas as, “It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you.” We may not reach the level of Mother Teresa but as we celebrate Christmas let us not lose sight of the true meaning of Christmas.
             

Friday, December 07, 2012

Remembering the late Mdm.Mary Tan




Lessons from life of late Mdm.Lam Chee Chun 

Mdm.Lam Chee Chun ( Mrs. Mary Tan),the wife of Mr.James Tan was laid to rest on  6 December 2012.Her sudden and untimely demise came as a great shock to her family and us and indeed we have lost a great friend. As we bid farewell to her, it is time for us to reflect on how she influenced our lives. Why did she come into our lives? Why God did send her into our lives? 

I came to know Mdm.Lam about 5-6years ago after her husband had a heart attack and underwent a cardiac bypass surgery. From then on his condition continued to deteriorate and he spent most of his time in and out of hospital. During these years of her husband’s deteriorating medical condition she was always at his side, attending to his needs in the hospital, at home and wherever he went. She was not just a wife but his driver, companion and friend day and night.  

At the age of 67,her husband’s illness took a great toll on her, physically, mentally and spiritually but she took it all in a stride, always appearing cheerful and portraying a sense of hope. Whenever I visited them in their home, where they stayed alone, she was always cheerful and freely talked about her husband’s peculiarities and stubbornness in not wanting to listen to her. She was aware of the seriousness of his   health but I never heard her complaint about the difficulties she was going through with his illness over so many years. I suppose that was due to the tremendous faith she had in God, that He will never forsake her.  

To me Mdm.Lam was an example of a dedicated wife to her husband even in times of serious illness till her death. Her extreme patience in serving him, sacrificing her likes and conveniences, for so such a long time, are a rare commodity these days that really touched and inspired me.

Let’s pray for the repose of her soul and pray especially for the speedy recovery of her beloved husband who has been left lonely and lost without her by his side. Let’s pray that God give him the strength and courage to continue alone with his children in his journey on earth touching everyone who crosses his path.

The death of Mdm.Lam is a great loss to her husband and children.We too have lost a great friend and a fellow parishioner,who was ever ready to offer her services whenever required.She may be gone but her memories will continue to live on in our hearts for years to come 

May Mdm.Lam’s soul rest in peace.

Tuesday, November 06, 2012

Amid Islamophobia, Islam overtaking Catholicis m in France



PARIS, Nov 2: A majority of people in France, according to a new poll, believe that Islam is too influential in French society, and almost half view Muslims as a threat to their national identity.

The survey reveals a significant degradation of the image of Islam in France. The findings also show that French voters are growing increasingly uneasy about mass immigration from Muslim countries, which has been encouraged by a generation of political and cultural elites in France dedicated to creating a multicultural society.

The survey conducted by the French Institute of Public Opinion (or Ifop, as it is usually called) and published by the center-right Le Figaro newspaper on October 24, shows that 60% of French people believe that Islam has become "too visible and influential" in France -- up from 55% in an earlier survey two years ago.

The poll also reveals that 43% of French people consider the presence of Muslim immigrants to be a threat to French national identity, compared to just 17% who say it enriches society.

In addition, 68% of people in France blame the problems associated with Muslim integration on immigrants who refuse to integrate (up from 61% two years ago), and 52% blame it on cultural differences (up from 40% two years ago).

The poll also shows a growing resistance to the symbols of Islam. Nearly two-thirds (63%) of French people say they are opposed to Muslim women wearing the veil or Islamic headscarves in public, compared to 59% two years ago.

Furthermore, the survey shows that only 18% of French people say they support the building of new mosques in France (compared to 33% in 1989, and 20% in 2010).

"Our poll shows a further hardening in French people's opinions," Jerome Fourquet, head of Ifop's opinion department, told Le Figaro. "In recent years, there has not been a week when Islam has not been in the heart of the news for social reasons: the veil, halal food, dramatic news like terrorist attacks or geopolitical reasons," he said.

France, which is home to an estimated six million Muslims, has the largest Muslim population in the European Union. There are now, in fact, more practicing Muslims in France than there are practicing Roman Catholics.

Although 64% of the French population (or 41.6 million of France's 65 million inhabitants) identify themselves as Roman Catholic, only 4.5% (or 1.9 million) of these actually are practicing Catholics, according to a separate survey on Catholicism in France published by Ifop in July 2009.

By way of comparison, 75% (or 4.5 million), of the estimated six million mostly ethnic North African and sub-Saharan Muslims in France, identify themselves as "believers;" and 41% (or 2.5 million) say they are "practicing" Muslims, according to an in-depth research report on Islam in France published by Ifop in July 2011.

Taken together, the research data provides empirical evidence that Islam is well on its way to overtaking Roman Catholicism as the dominant religion in France.

This trend is also reflected in the fact that mosques are being built more often in France than are Roman Catholic churches; nearly 150 new mosques are currently under construction in France.

The total number of mosques in France has already doubled to more than 2,000 during just the past ten years, according to a research report, "Constructing Mosques: The Governance of Islam in France and the Netherlands." The rector of the Grand Mosque of Paris, Dalil Boubakeur, has called for the number of mosques in the country to be doubled again -- to 4,000 -- to meet growing demand.

By contrast, the Roman Catholic Church has built only 20 new churches in France during the past decade, and has formally closed more than 60 churches, many of which are destined to become mosques, according to research conducted by La Croix, a Roman Catholic daily newspaper based in Paris.

In recent weeks, tensions have flared over the proposed conversion of an empty church into a mosque in the central French town of Vierzon. The controversy involves Saint-Eloi's, a small church located in a working class neighborhood that has been taken over by immigrants from Morocco and Turkey.

With six churches to maintain and fewer faithful every year, Roman Catholic authorities in Vierzon say they can no longer afford to keep Saint-Eloi's. They now want to sell the building for €170,000 ($220,000) to a Moroccan Muslim organization that wants to convert the church into a mosque.

In an interview with the French weekly newsmagazine Le Nouvel Observateur, Alain Krauth, the parish priest of the largest Catholic church in Vierzon, said: "The Christian community is not as important as it used to be in the past. If moderate Muslims buy Saint-Eloi's, we can only be happy that the Muslims of Vierzon are able to celebrate their religion." His comments were greeted with outrage by local citizens who are now trying to prevent the church from becoming a mosque.

Similar scenes are being played out across France.

In the nearby city of Poitiers, around 70 members of a conservative youth group known as Generation Identity recently occupied a mosque that is being built in the heavily Muslim Buxerolles district of the city. The dawn raid on October 21 was intended as a protest against Islam's growing influence in France.

The protesters climbed onto the roof of the mosque (photos here) and unfurled a banner with the symbolic phrase "732 Generation Identity," a reference to the year 732, when Charles Martel halted the advance of the invading Muslim army to the north of Poitiers (also known as the Battle of Tours.)

Meanwhile, the Socialist government in France recently inaugurated a new mega-mosque in Paris as a first step towards "progressively building a French Islam."

The new mosque, located in the northern Paris suburb of Cergy-Pontoise, is not only vast in its dimensions (photos here), but is also highly visible and symbolic: its towering minaret, which has purposely been designed to change the suburb's skyline by being taller than any church steeple in the neighborhood, is supposed to become the "new symbol of Islam in France."

Speaking on behalf of French President François Hollande at the inauguration ceremony of the mosque in Cergy, French Interior Minister Manuel Valls articulated the Socialist government's policy vis-à-vis the construction of new mosques in France. He declared: "A mosque, when it is erected in the city, says a simple thing: Islam has its place in France."

Declining Faith in the West, where do we go from here?

1.Although 64% of the French population (or 41.6 million of France's 65 million inhabitants) identify themselves as Roman Catholic, only 4.5% (or 1.9 million) of these actually are practicing Catholics

2.More and more churches are converted to mosques

Being a born and bred catholic and one who strongly believes in the teachings of Jesus, I feel extremely sad to read of the developments of our church in France and Europe in general. It is on the decline with less and less people practicing their faith and more and more churches are being converted to mosques. I am not against the flourishing of Islam there but the decline of Christianity that is deeply disturbing.

France was once the centre of Catholicism and we all remember the dedicated priests who came all they way leaving their country, homes and loved ones behind to serve us even in the most remote areas. Many of them never returned home as they died serving us here. Most of those dedicated priests practiced what they preached and they were not just pastors but a father, a guardian and a true friend in need in who we could confide.

Well those were the good old days of our glorious past. Europe is fast falling as far as Catholicism is concerned. We in Asia and in Malaysia are not too far away from a scenario like in France and other European countries. We seem to be following them as we never seem to learn from the experiences of the West

In the West the people are leaving the church in droves due to loss of faith but ironically in our country practicing Catholics are ‘chased’ out of the church not because they are non-believers or anti-catholic but because they disagree on the way the church is administered and speak up against many what they see as not right.  

If we do not check these unhealthy developments and take pains to keep every member of the flock together in the family and make the church more people-friendly we too will hasten the process of our downfall here. If the church fails to touch the hearts of the people in their struggles through life, like in the West, it will soon become irrelevant to them in their lives.

  A Tribute to Fr.Alexander  Edwin                                                                                                                                                                                          (Passed away  25June 2012)

You may be gone but you still remain in the hearts of many faithful.You did what was right and remained faithful till the end


You accepted the pain of your illness as the will of God with great faith,courage and humility.


By doing so you touched the hearts of many, giving courage to others in pain and distress.

May eternal light shine upon you and may your soul rest in peace